Chef Xolani Says He Was Forced To Pay Lobola For Wife Vuyokazi Nciweni
Drama Explodes Between Top Chef Xolani Sabelo and Reality Star Vuyokazi Nciweni Amid Divorce Claims

The public split between renowned Chef Xolani Sabelo and his wife, Vuyokazi Nciweni—reality star from Ingane Zesthembu—has intensified, with shocking revelations surfacing about their troubled relationship.
Following a storm of online drama, the couple seems to be on an inevitable path toward divorce.
Chef Xolani recently made headlines with a viral confession, claiming that his marriage to Vuyokazi wasn’t his choice, alleging he felt pressured into paying lobola.
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His explosive statement took social media by storm, raising questions about their relationship’s foundation.
Men will embarrass you 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ hawu Chef Xolani and Vuyokazi’s Marriage..ay kuningi kuningi this year 😭💔 pic.twitter.com/8ZWkDYfhpM
— Sis’Omhl’Omd’Opholileyo (@Loenz_N) November 2, 2024
Responding to these accusations, Vuyokazi confirmed the impending divorce, expressing that “no one should stay in a marriage that doesn’t bring peace.”
In her statement, she revealed that Xolani’s infidelity with her best friend has left her reeling, adding another layer of betrayal to an already fractured relationship.
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With a heavy heart, Vuyokazi spoke out, stating that she has always valued privacy but finds herself repeatedly drawn into the public eye due to her relationships.
She shared how painful it has been to learn about Xolani’s accusations, which imply she forced him into marriage—a claim she finds shocking and deeply hurtful.
Vuyokazi bakithi😭💔 pic.twitter.com/VTTTBK70zT
— Siziphiwe🎀. (@Sizi_phiwe) November 3, 2024
“This has exposed a side of him I didn’t know, or perhaps chose not to see,” she admitted, describing the emotional toll of these revelations.
Despite the heartbreak, she expressed gratitude to those who have offered their support during this difficult time.
Vuyokazi acknowledged the betrayal and heartbreak she feels, empathizing with other women who have endured similar situations.
As she faces this challenging period, she requested privacy and stated she won’t be commenting further on her personal matters.
This highly publicized split between Chef Xolani Sabelo and Vuyokazi Nciweni has captured the attention of fans and followers alike, with emotions running high as each new twist unfolds.
The drama, betrayal, and raw emotions have left many wondering what’s next for the estranged couple.